How's Work?

I once asked a friend, "how's life?" Her reply was not-of-that-of-the usual. Her reply goes:

Work is not a punctuation, it is a capital letter
Work is what i live for, living with a toast of life
Work is what i am paid to do, I just work
Work is my life, i got to be crazy
Work is fun, i got to be crazy
Work is a joy, crazy becoming sane
Work is nothing good, it is something better
Work is a pleasure, never a chore
- Elizabeth Lim -

Isn't that what life is all about if we care to look at it a little closer?

Sounds Like An Opportunity

Joan: Can I get a refill?
God:
Coming right up.(turns around but turns right back)
Excuse me, but are you alright?
Joan: Yeah (hesitantly pauses)
No, it's a long story.
God:
I like stories. I'm considered a bit of a storyteller myself.
Joan: My husband, you've heard of New York's Noah?
God:
(laughs)
The guy who's building the ark.
Joan: That's him.
God:
I love that story, the one about the ark. A lot of people miss the point of that story. They think it's about God's wrath and anger. They love it when God gets angry.
Joan: What is the story about then, the ark?
God:
Well, I think it's a love story, about believing in each other. You know, the animals showed up in pairs. They stood by each other, side by side, just like Noah and his family. Everyone entered the ark together, side by side.
Joan: But my husband says, God told him to do it. What do you do with that?
God:Sounds like an opportunity.
(Joan looks at God puzzled) Let me ask you something.
If someone prays for patience, do you think God gives them patience? Or does He give them the opportunity to be patient?
If he prayed for courage, does God give him courage, or does He give him opportunities to be courageous?
If someone prayed for the family to be closer, you think God zaps them with warm, fuzzy feelings, or does He give them opportunities to love one another?
God:Well, I got to run, lots of people to serve. (pointing to the basket in front of the Joan, which has miraculously replenishes) Enjoy!

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Amazing how we look at things sometimes. I believe in Christianity, but watching Evan Almighty again, it shows that there are times where we ask for things, but fail to see the opportunities that God has put in front of us to give the opportunity to exercise our ability to get what we want.
Just like what was shared, if we pray for courage, God gives us opportunities to be courageous, and to continually grow our ability to be courageous so when we need to call upon courage, we have it within us.
Let us look upon the trials we have not as roadblocks, but as opportunities for us to get to what we want to be, and where we want to be.

Power to Change Someone's Life

Ben Thomas:
It is within my power to drastically change his circumstances, but I don't want to give that man a gift he doesn't deserve.
Quoted from the movie, Seven Pounds

How often do we have in us, the power to drastically change the circumstances of the people around us, yet so often do we give them to the people who deserve them the least? Do we judge accordingly on whom best deserve the gifts we provide, or do we often make the mistake of making people priority in our lives, when often we are just an option in theirs.

The next time you see a colleague struggling to finish their work, a friend looking to better his business, an enemy in need of a friend, remember ... we have the power to drastically change their circumstances, if only if we choose to. Like in the overly quoted statement, with "Great powers come great responsibility". Be responsible in choosing whom we choose to use our powers to change someone's life today.

On Living With a Full Heart

When one is too hurt one cannot see others' pain, is too blind with one's own.
When one has many weights to lift, one cannot enjoy life.
When one has many expectations, one cannot be patient with others.
When one has fear, one cannot enjoy life.
When one does not give, one is making the heart lonely.
When one does not take, one is making the heart feel inferior
When one does not hope, one is shutting oneself into a tight closet.
But when one does not love, one is killing one's self.

* Quoted from 12-year old Olivia, Berkley, California

They always share that one should not look at life in a negative way. Especially for myself who works in HR systems, getting anything done sometimes is almost impossible. The realm of impossibility is stretched to such extents that sometimes it gets so frustrating to do anything.

Thus in life, I feel we should all live life, looking at how we can do something, and stop saying no so often. Let's start right now, by deciding that it's possible, and that it CAN be done, only if we want to.

Mantra for 2009

It's a great powerpoint slide that a friend had sent to me via the email. True, it's one of those "you-need-to-send-it-out-within-96-hours" thingy, but if you ignore that fact, and read the points, it helps open up some thoughts on how we would want to live 2009.

Here are a list for those who can't open the document:

1. Take into account that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
2. When you lose, don't lose the lesson.
3. Follow the 3 Rs:
a. Respect for Self
b. Respect for Others
c. Responsibility for all your actions
* I so need to make this my own new year's resolution
4. Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful thing.
5. Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly.
6. Don't let a little dispute injure a great relationship.
7. When you realise you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
8. Spend some time alone every day.
9. Open your arms to change, but don't give up on your values.
10. Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.
11. Live a good, honorable life. Then when you get older and think it back, you'll be able to enjoy it a second time.
12. A loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for your life.
13. In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the current situation. Don't bring up the past.
14. Share your knowledge, it is a way to achieve immortality.
15. Be gentle with the Earth.
16. Once a year, go some place you've never been before.
17. Remember, the best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other.
18. Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.
19. Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon.